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Why Boyfriends Ignore Their Girlfriends

Things started out well. But now he calls and texts you less and less. The question why boyfriends ignore their girlfriends baffles many women. So here are some explanations and suggestions on how to get your boyfriend’s attention back – so you can stop worrying about your relationship…

In fact, there are only two real reason why boyfriends ignore their girlfriends:

1. He’s genuinely busy.

2. He’s become bored.

In the beginning of a relationship, it’s natural for the two of you to spend hours together – talking, texting, hanging out, etc. Since your boyfriend is aware of how fresh and fragile your relationship is, he will make spending time with you his top priority. He’s in his hunting mode and pursuing you is his focus.

However, as time goes on, reality kicks in. Eventually, your boyfriend will need to spend time handling other important matters in his life – work, family, friends, laundry, house cleaning, etc. So at some point, be prepared to become less of a priority to your boyfriend. In this case, he is genuinely busy resuming the life he had before you entered the scene – catching up on tasks he pushed aside while he was pursuing you.

The only way you can know whether your boyfriend has been ignoring you is because he’s genuinely busy, is to politely ask him what he’s been busy with. If he can give you a reasonable explanation, and alarm bells are not ringing in your head, trust him.

Also, since he’s busy with his life, follow his lead, ignore him and start focusing on living your own life too. If he’s the right man for you, he’ll start to wonder about you and start calling. If he doesn’t contact you within three days, at least his priorities become clear… and you make progress in your life, instead of waiting around for a guy who’s not worth your time and affection.

Another reason why your boyfriend is genuinely busy is after the two of you have a fight, or he’s facing challenges in his life. Boyfriends are likely to ignore their girlfriends when they have problems to solve. Many women can’t understand men’s behaviour because we handle life very differently – women prefer to discuss their problems with friends, while men prefer to hole themselves up and come up with solutions on their own. So if your boyfriend ignores you after a fight, he could be genuinely busy trying to figure out how to avoid fighting with you again.

Give your boyfriend the time and space he needs and he will appreciate you for being understanding. If you are too impatient, he will feel pressured and frustrated that you don’t give him enough time to solve his problems. He will feel disrespected and will find you meddlesome or worse, a nag. If you want your boyfriend to love you more, give him space.

Another real reason why boyfriends ignore their girlfriends is because they’ve become bored with the relationship. This usually happens when the woman doesn’t pace the relationship and lets the man get too close too fast. When this happens, a man is likely to lose interest easily. This happens because if he didn’t have to work hard to chase you, he’s less likely to treasure you as his girlfriend. If you want his attention back, don’t initiate contact. Spend your time working out so you can look great the next time he sees you. That will give you a good chance of recapturing his interest.

Source by Rachel Lim Shuling

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