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How to Have 3-In-A-Bed Sex – Threesome Tips and Techniques For Men’s Fantasies

Oddly enough, the first question that most men have about 3-in-a-bed sex (Especially if MFF is their fantasy) is actually has a simple answer:

Q. How do I get a girl to have a threesome with me?
A. Ask!

Countless e-books and magazine articles have been written on the topic, but 9 times out of 10, she will be dropping hints that this is one of her fantasies. From there it is a simple matter of progressing her to the point where she will actually have the threesome in real life.

As all men know, picking up on her hints can sometimes be like learning a different language. The hints that she is interested in a threesome fantasy will usually range from subtle, but clear to baffling. What you are looking for are here responses to things rather than her words. If she responds well to movies with a bisexual element or admits to being attracted to actresses in movies, then obviously she is sending you some massive hints. Women are often even subtler than that and she may tell you stories of couples that had threesomes or bring it up as a joke to test your reaction. While the ways that she will tell you vary a lot, she will try and get the message through to you if you listen hard enough.

Once she tells you that she is interested, a lot of guys then make a mistake by giving her a label like ‘bisexual’ or similar. While some women wear this label with pride, most don’t want the kind of dramatic lifestyle change these labels imply, they simply want to live a fantasy. Most couples that have a lot of threesomes use words girl-girl or even referring to the third person as a ‘toy’ so that they can enjoy the fantasy without any extra emotional baggage.

How to Get from ‘Interested’ to Threesome

The next steps involve gently progressing towards the fantasy. It can be tough for a woman just to find herself right in a threesome as often the reality is different from the fantasy that she has in her head. Progression can take many forms such as using erotic movies to give her an idea of what it would be like (Make sure the movie is female friendly though as many aren’t) or even taking her to strip club and letting her have fun there. As a general rule most strippers have no problems with female-female lap-dancing as long as they are paid suitably.

How to: Threesome Advice

The final thing that has to be established are the ‘ground rules.’ threesomes don’t just have one kind, there are many. As well as the standard M.M.F. (An abbreviation for 2 males and a female in the bed) and M.F.F. (Male-female-female abbreviated) varieties there are other kinds including:

* Both partners have sex with the third person
* Only one partner has sex with the third person (Man watches the two girls together and doesn’t join in/ Man has sex with each girl in turn). It is worth mentioning that some women will want a threesome, but will not have sex with the other woman.
* Neither has sex with the third person, for example, the third person masturbates while the couple have sex with each other. This is rare, but does happen and falls into the voyeuristic fantasy category.

In addition, it is worth taking some time to define general rules, especially who has sex with who and what is allowed. Many a good fantasy is ruined by not clearly defining what is and isn’t allowed. This will make a lot of difference during the threesome and could make all the difference to your relationship.



Source by Harlan Mulroy

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