How To Be Sexy - F'd Up Sexual Attraction!

How To Be Sexy – F'd Up Sexual Attraction!



Why is Tony Stark sexy and Captain America isn’t?
Why is Angelina sexy and Jennifer isn’t?
And how can you learn how to ACTIVATE your own sexiness with the opposite sex?

LINKS FROM THIS VIDEO:
MEN – THE POWER SWITCH: http://bit.ly/2KJd37J
WOMEN – SEXUAL COMMUNICATION: http://bit.ly/30iUmNx

Credit: “Building A Mystery” by Sara McLachlan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_QUq72fla3o

In this video, learn the “secret sauce” for becoming sexually attractive… Sexy is more than just physical appearance… a LOT more. And in this video I share why “fucked up” just might be kinda sexy…
This is also good relationship advice, because sexual attraction is one of the keys for how to feel confident in your relationship as well.

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18 thoughts on “How To Be Sexy – F'd Up Sexual Attraction!”

  1. I think I may have heard it from you first Alex, but there's a good reason why Captain America is super sexy. It has to do with the fact that hot guys don't always have great characters. Same with women. When they do it's a winning combination. Great video – I loved it. Thanks 🙂

  2. HOLY SMOKES. This video was a Shazam moment for me. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU. And YES, share this with your doctor. You have the tact and grace to do so without pissing him off. And if you share this, and he gets pissed off anyway? Well … that's on him. But this explains so much to me, about those times in my life when I truly attracted women, and my struggle with being able to "summon that magic" later … It always baffled me. But this is the key …. It sure is simple – but definitely not easy. Keep up the great work Alex!! And thanks again … Chuck

  3. Alex, this was powerful. It really hit home for me when you described your doctor as careful, meek and vanilla, but also a good guy. I think that's how women perceive me. All the sharp edges are smoothed and any quality that might not meet with social approval is dialled down. I get how this isn't sexy. Pleasant and tepid doesn't get anyone's heart racing. If I'm understanding what you've said, it sounds like the solution is to embody the parts of ourselves that are more primal, alive, passionate and fiery. And I guess what goes along with that is self-acceptance around how messed up some of those parts are. But I'm still not sure how to actually embody this. And I worry, what if my true nature really is meek and vanilla. Are there some practices that you can suggest to start tapping into another side of myself?

  4. This is one of those perfect videos that strikes to the heart of everything that makes a man beautiful. We weren't born to be perfect. We were born into confusion. We were born to push forward, to create worlds, not just exist in the one we found ourselves in. We were born for looking hard, to find our way, to create our path, and to serve one another, protect one another, be mindful of one another, encourage one another, correct one another. This is about the truest passion. Living as a reflection of others is not being true to yourself. Looking for someone to live in your reflection is living in a broken ego. It seems to me that when a man reaches a certain point in his self-realization, when he looks out into the world, he sees what he can change for the better. Real courage is to face what is, and fight for what good can become. Most often, what we must fight is within us. There are producers, and there are consumers. As a little boy, we are consumers. I knew one who was 101 years old. Gimme, gimme, gimme. Pathetic little boy all of his days. Sucked the life out of anyone he could. A man is a boy who has become a producer, who stands up to the world and does what seems right to him. Doesn't shy away from the cost. Bottom line is this: Children behave. Men don't. A man does what he believes is right, and knows he will make his mistakes, but still does his best. You can't do what's right by trying to please someone. To be the most perfectly behaved man in the world is to waste your entire life. Can't for the life of me imagine why any woman would be attracted to something like that. How could she feel safe? Yeah, I think the sexiest man in the world is a man who is bold with character controlled direction. That is a man a woman can trust.

  5. I really need more videos on self acceptance. Thanks Alex , this really shifted a bit of the sadness I've been feeling for a while . This video helped, but a lot of it's still there. But the bit of relief I felt was great.

  6. The majority of the so called dating experts try and teach you to be somebody else, Alex tries to teach you to acknowlege yourself and due to that be not only more sexy, but also more happy.

    This is the second video of yours that I've seen. And won't be the last. I've never heard a dating advice that made me feel this good and relaxed. It makes me feel that everything's gonna be cool, just open your heart to other as well as to yourself, and don't take it too seriously. We're all on one boat. Everything's gonna work out.

    Should you share this with the doctor? Well, you can tell him you've been thinking and suppose that you made some videos that might be really helpful for him in your opinion, and that you can send him links via email. It's up to him.

  7. My philosophy is if someone is drowning and sincerely asks for help, I throw them a life preserver. But it they just want to play the martyr, I throw them a brick. You told him what you did for a living. In the very least, that's offering him a life preserver. Given he didn't follow-up on what you have to offer, I can only surmise that he would rather justify his current identity than create one that will serve to facilitate the life he truly desires.

  8. I think you should just send him the link and let it sink (or not). He may become pissed off, but as you said, he may be needing the pissed off. I feel what you said in this video so much that it almost pains me. This is such a need of the modern men. We've become a meek joke of what our animal ancestors were when they explored and conquered this world and I wanna be among the men who honor our inner fucked-up-ness just like it always should have been. Thank you for your work. It's vital.

  9. I find it so hard to cultivate! as it FEELS different to how everyone describes it. And I spend so much time listening to people on "how to" that I look in the wrong direction

  10. So how do I go about showing this girl I’m interested in my fucked up side without being too obvious? She knows me pretty well, we kinda dated for a couple months but it was too soon for her because she was getting out of a shitty relationship with someone who was a narcissistic asshole. I mean he was really fucked up and it obviously worked for him because they dated for like 7 years. I have my own fucked up side for sure, but how do I bring it up/ what do I say to get her interested but not freak her out?

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